Friday, March 27, 2009

Selangor Youth Joining Kuala Lumpur Development Program

I am sure many of you out there are aware that many Youth Bowlers living and studying in Selangor had taken liberty to join the development program handled by the Kuala Lumpur Association.

It is ok, no problem with this, BUT why are they doing this? Why are they not under the Selangor Development Program? There must be some real good reason that made the decision by the parents.

Maybe these parents would also like to share their experiences and maybe even provide soem constructive suggestions, so that Selangorians will always be loyal to the Association in Selangor.

27 comments:

Wilfred Yeo said...

Our national bowler Sharon Koh used to bowl for Kuala Lumpur despite living in Shah Alam.

Our national youths, Symir Razak and Hee Kar Yen have also done the same despite them studying in Subang Jaya and Petaling Jaya.

I believe the KL programs are more fair and do not discriminate against a few factors. (obviously we do not want to instigate any sensitive discussions here but we all know).

There is also a balance in the various factors that i was so not going to mention of the coaches in KL too (which we do not want to discuss coz it might get sensitive too) whereas in Selangor it is so one sided.

My son is currently training under the Megalanes program which I prefer better. As a fee is paid, we as parents have a choice of deciding whether what was paid for was worth it.

Just my dua kupang.:)

kelvio said...

actually joining which association is just the choice of their own,

it dont mean that the place we study or stay will determine the association we have to join,

as for me im a penang born it dont mean that i have to play for penang,

so its just the choice of the bowler

just my 2 cents

Shalin Zulkifli said...

I do not have the liberty to comment on the KLTBA program because each state has their own program & when the evaluation coaches are scheduled to do the evaluation. Selangor only had our youth evaluation in late feb/early march & the STBA04 commitee has approved the names picked by the MTBC coaching panel...We are looking & compiling a list for qualified (sports science)coaches that is willing to come to SHah Alam to coach the kids...due to the little & very delayed payment system of the NSC, this is a difficult task..


but if some of the parents want to send their kids to train in KL, we cannot stop them because it's their decision & choice as parents...

Anonymous said...

Saya merupakan salah seorg pemain boling yg mengikuti Selangor Development Program. Membaca luahan hati ibubapa kawan2 saya mengenai kemelut STBA ini terlintas dihati saya untuk memberi pandangan.
Bagi saya mana2 negeri ada masaalahnya cuma kita sahaja yg tidak perasan. Kalau tidak, masakan ada pemain yg bertukar ke negeri lain.
Program yg dianjurkan memang memberi manafaat kpd saya, cuma yg menjadi persoalannya mengapa lambat hendak di mulakan? Sekurang2nya bila ada circuit kami berbangga memakai baju negeri Selangor.
Mengenai program ni, saya ingin memberi sedikit pandangan, kalau boleh dibenarkan mana2 pemain menjalankan latihan lebih dari satu jurulatih. Bagi saya semua jurulatih mengajar cara yg sama dan masing2 ada keistimewaannya. Kebelakangan ni saya telah mencuba 3 jurulatih dlm satu masa, Alhamdulillah saya rasa tidak ada masaalah. Kalau ada pun masih boleh diperbetulkan. Bagi saya program yg disediakan 3 kali seminggu tidak mencukupi tetapi tu tidak menjadi masaalah. Utk pengetahuan, saya menjalani latihan persendirian 3 kali seminggu (khamis,jumaat & sabtu) dan league (isnin dan rabu),itu belum termasuk one day event.
Bagi jurulatih pula, jika ke circuit tu janganlah tengok anak didik jurulatih aja, kalau boleh tengoklah sekali pemain yg juga mewakili Selangor. Saya pernah top8, bermain di hari akhir,, aduh sedihnya tak ada seorang jurulatih pun yang ada pada masa tu. Sedangkan pemain negeri lain mendapat sokongan padu dari jurulatih mereka, ini yang membuatkan saya rasa terpencil.
Mohon maaf pada ibubapa kwn2 saya, ingin saya katakan disini untuk menjadi juara bukanlah mudah dan dalam masa yang singkat. Kadang2 saya pun tidak dapat menunaikan kehendak ibubapa saya, Alhamdullilah lama kelamaan mereka paham. Pada saya semangat itu penting, kalah/menang adat permainan, asalkan kita main dgn average kita, itu yg mustahak. Ibubapa janganlah salahkan anak2 atau pun jurulatih kalau tidak berjaya. Bagi saya siapa yg tak mau menang (BETUL TAK KAWAN2), jurulatih pun mesti nak anak didik mereka menang. (AM I RIGHT COURSE… .)
Saya harap dgn pandangan saya ni tidak mengecilkan hati mana2 pihak.

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pacai said...

Testing 1, 2, 3...

pacai said...

The KL leg starts today and still no light at the end of the tunnel of the where about of our(Selangor) preparation/training program. We didn't have the problem previously but why now? Is it because of the training venue? We use to have volunteers( yes guys, they are not paid, actually) helping out the coaching staffs when it was held in Summit, out of the love of the game and for the sake of our youngsters, but now...Looks like 'somebody' is more concern on filling up their 'alley', I guess. Summit was like a home to our bowlers and most parents I dare say found it very convenient due to various advantages it offers, i.e friendly and dependable staffs, location, parking and homely feelings whenever one is there, I might be bias, but that is how I feel whenever I'm there( i'm staying in Putra Heights, by the way, almost equal distance to most alleys).
I was told that AA bowlers will be trained at Ole2, while AAA at Ubowl! Why two different venues? A totally selfish move to me. Imagine if one were to have 2 children in both categories. Mati ma.... Come on guys, just train in summit, quash ALL rumors and bad feelings. Summit seems to be a neutral venue. Have the training there. If you can't pay the coaches, we, the parents will come up with an alternative ways for that, we've engaged privete coaches anyway, in YOUR ABSENCE!
I don't have any 'shares' in Summit, don't worry, and don't get paid for promoting the venue. I just want mykids to start their training....FAST! Before we too start seeking greener pastures across the 'border'. Kapish!

botak said...

Saya ada yang AAA buat dekat 1U dan AA dekat ole2. saya bersetuju dgn pacai. Naper hendak buat 2 tempat? Lagi senang buat 1 tempat je.Lagipun HQ Stba04 kat summit.Senang hendak berurusan.Saya di fahamkan selangor tak ada atau tak cukup coaches. Mana boleh bro. Bukankah selangor ada ramai coaches. Masa sukan teras ada banyak centre dan banyak coaches.Mana pergi coaches semua?Kalau ada coaches tak kan tak boleh arah 1 coach pun pergi ke 1 tempat je. Stba04 tak de power ke atau ada udang di sebalik batu? Ada yang masuk ke....... Bila stba04 nak bangun dari tidur ni? Adakah parents dan youth bowlers kena ikut telunjuk Stba04 sahaja? Apa perents harus takut ke kalau anak mereka tidak dapat mewakili selangor jika tidak per ke tempat Training yang dikehendaki. Sampai bila? Helloooo my friends lets wake the Stba04 and stop this nonsence.

aqeem said...

Hai kwn2 n eddie, sesiapa yg ingin berhubung dgn saya bole lah hantar email aqeembowl@yahoo.com

utk pengetahuan eddie, umur saya utk bln ni 13thn june baru saya 14thn ting. 2. SMK sek 9. tournament beginer di shah alam kurang tapi eddie bole contact mana2 bowling centre.

Di sini ingin saya mengucapkan ribuan terima kasih saya pd coach Andrew and En. Mat Salleh kerana membantu saya di circuit KL hingga saya mendapat TOP 4.

Thanks Coach.

tinie9485 said...

Excuse me. As parent I am very sad to find out that Selangorian still didnt change their attitude towards our children participating in this year circuit. The third leg just past and still there is no change on what had happened. Kesian kat anak-anak yang bertanding, tak ada supporting group langsung. Sometimes we have got to teach our children to just think about our selves rather then thinking about the team of Selangor anymore. We have to be very self-centered due to how the association treat our children.

I do agree to a few of us that, what they need is training. Tak kesah lah siapa. Ini tak, tak boleh train dengan orang lain just to make sure that "HE" is the only coach that is capable to coach.

Sometimes being a mother, I know how the pin going to be if I know the way my child throw is right or wrong... And please bear in mind I can't even throw a bowling ball... If I do, I close my kitchen for a year. Hahaha... I really respect my children who can bowl coz' knowing the pain, hmmm they are quite strong compared to me... But I always support my children in Bowling.... apatah lagi their father... huh tak boleh kira, blood pressure naik takat mana...

Hopefully, this year Selangor can have a good team to send for the MSSM. Pity them... Somehow, they are all from Teras Team...

botak said...

hai everybody. Sape kata selangor tidak ada coach masa kl leg. Mungkin ramai tak perasan atau saje buat 2 tak tahu.Ha ni yang menarik perhatian saya atau mungkin orang lain juga.Sebab coach ni hanya jaga anak buah dia saje. Betul tak betul tak? Ok mari kita tengok betul 2.Hari pertama 17hrb hari jumaat coach andrew datang.Hari graded main. Tak tahu la dia tengok sape. Budak 2 dia je ke atau semua budak selangor.Gaya mcm tengo budak dia je...... he he he. Hari kedua baru andrew tak nampak bayang. Malangnya hari kedua tu dari pagi sampai petang 1 coach selangor pun tak nampak bayang.Kita tolak tepi lah ex selangor coach yang ada disitu sebab dia dah bukak kelab dan company sendiri k. Tahukah anda disebelah mlm ada coach selangor yang datang. Coach mat salleh ada masa boys open. So disini kita dapat tahu macam mana coach2 selangor melihat dan pandang anak 2 kita.Adakah ini menunjukan pilih kasih atau mahu jaga standard. Saya harap satu perubahan akan dibuat oleh stba 04. Saya disini bukan hendak nak bertengkar atau bergaduh. Tapi biar lah bagi satu contoh dan tauladan yang baik pada budak 2.

botak said...

Bagi aqeem tahniah dapat masuk sampai semifinal. Dekat pahang nanti try lebih lagi tau.Bagi yang lain tu tahniah atas usaha2 dan semangat bermain.Hope to see u all again kat pahang k.

pacai said...

KL leg passed by and as expected, Selangorian did badly especially in the boys graded category. One glaring observation was that most of the 'season' players were seen wearing a 'normal' t-shirt other than the usual 'Selangor' jerseys. It seemed that they are pretty embarassed or rather disheartened that their 'own' state abandoned them. None of the boys graded made it to the finals. The best position was no 14 overall. Imagine that...
Botak said right, but this was the normal thing nowadays, people only wants to be associated with the 'successful' players only. Human nature, I guess. The AAA programme will start soon in Ubowl, I'm very reluctant to join due to various reason, mostly the distance and the timings. I hope parents will stick together in demanding he trainings to be done at a more neutral venues. TQ.

Admin said...

The KL leg (3rd out of 7) of the National Junior is now history, and by going through the results, the accomplishment of our Selangor Youth Bowlers, is nothing much to shout about. This is a real pity!

One thing that catches my eyes is that almost all of these Selangor Youth Bowlers are not wearing the Selangor “Colors”, unlike the previous years.

Are they embarrassed? Are they angry? (or the parents are angry?) All other participants in the circuits are wearing their respective State “Colors” . I even see some parents from other states wearing their State “Colors” Could this be some kind of a protest fro the Selangor Youth Bowlers?

Now a strong wind is indicating that this year, the Selangor Youth Development Training will be held at two separate locations. For the AA Level Bowlers, the training will be held at Ole-Ole Bowling Alley, while the AAA Bowlers will train at U-Bowl at One Utama.

I just cannot comprehend this decision at all no matter how much I try to. All these years, the Development Training had always been held at Ampang Superbowl @ The Summit. Why the sudden change and why at two venues?

Ehem…ehem….could this be another PERSONAL AGENDA or is STBA04 had not been paying Ampang Superbowl for the use of the lanes for training? If the latter is the reason, how and why did that come about? Where did the funds from MSN, for training purposes, gone to? Questions….questions….and more questions!

WHY COULD THEY NOT HAVE THE TRAINING AT ONE VENUE……….AMPANG SUPERBOWL @ THE SUMMIT?

The start date for the development training program, is still unknown.

Right now the School District competition is on-going, preparing for the selections of bowlers to represent Selangor in the MSSM. The competition for the Petaling Utara District commenced on Monday and on Thursday April 16, 2009, the Final for all age group will be held at Sunway Megalanes.

This is the GRASSROOT level of Bowling in Selangor, but unfortunately not one single coach from STBA04 can bee seen. No other districts are having their tournament right now, if an excuse to say that too many district tournament if on-going and there is too little coach to go around. This is BULLSHIT!

STBA04 is just not interested in “budding” Bowlers. They are only interested in “Stars”. I guess their motto is ….parents go spend your money….and when your kid is a “Star” I will take over. That is not over yet…..when your child is now a “Star” they ask you too pay more money to the coaches to train your child, when the program is being funded by MSN! Where goes the fund from MSN?

Looking at all this issue, it just made me wonder whether there is a need to have a separate association to safeguard our children, who are the future of Selangor Bowling?

What say the other parents?

Anonymous said...

Nak tanya :-
1) i tak tau pun selangor player ada 'star'. sapa 'star' yg you maksudkan. Bole i tanya pendapat 'star" ni plak.

2) setahu i your children terpilih utk program sukma that day tapi u keluarkan your children dari program tu. why??

Admin said...

Pada anonymous,

I tak tahu pasal apa you bertanya sedemikian.

Saya bolih memberi jawapan yang bernas tetapi atas satu syarat, ia itu Anonynous registerkan diri dalam blog ini atau pun menyatakan nama, dalam blog ini.

Say meminta ini kerana saya tidak mahu orang fikir bahawa saya sendiri yang membuat komen dalam blog ini dan bertanya seemikian.

Jikalau Anonymous sanggup berbuat sedemikian, saya sanggup memberi penjelasan dan sebab2 nya!

Terima Kasih

aslam said...

Admin,

I dah register.

can you pls story ckit kat i siapa lucky boy/girl 'star' and why u keluarkan your children dr sukma.

Tks.

S.N.H™ said...

Salam,

To Aslam or whoever u are lah..

There's no reason for you to ask such question as though as you know the fucking truth!

The Sukma 2010 admission I MYSELF DECLINED it for a very valid reason. and that will be I WANT TO concentrate on my studies!

I gave up bowling after what happened during the interstate decision. So I have another very good reason to PULL MYSELF OUT! It wasn't my dad's decision! PLZ GET THINGS STRAIGHT!

So you know KL circuit was the 1st circuit I went to see. I gave up! I am trying to get away from all these money-minded ppl! I am ashamed with all the ppl who once I trusted before, who I tresure for helping me in all way.. but YOU PPL DISGRACE YOURSELF AND YES IM AVOIDING YOU PPL!

I did my part by contributing to the State. & I am VERY PROUD TO SAY I hold a GOLD MEDAL for last year's Sukma! I can always go back to the 2010 Squad ANYTIME that's what kenny told me! What does that mean, I just wonder.. Well go figure!

I've done my part for Selangor.. Im through with bowling.. In my heart im stil a "Selangorian" Bowling?? not anymore!

So "Aslam" did I answer your question? If you are in the squad right now, good for you..Plus give your full name.. dun be another disgraceful person! I have been bowling for so long, and "Aslam"?? It NEVER RING ANY BELLS! I hope you are happy now.


Salam.

Admin said...

Aslam,

Dalam dunia ini kita kena berhati2 supaya kita tidak di tipu.

Here is my email address

zainalhashim@gmail.com

You stori sikit kat I dalam email tu siapa you sebenar or give me your contact number and I will keep my word and buat a "tell all" dalam Blog ini.

Saya minta maaf, tapi saya tidak mahu di perdayakan. If there is sincerity in your soalan, I will be very sincere with my answer to your question.

Infact my reply to your soalan dah siap, cuma I perlu kepastian terhadap diri you dalam email you nanti.

Infact dalam Blog ini, kalau bolih kita perlu tahu siapa yg menulis, supaya kalau at the end of the day kita ada concrete documented evidence untuk bawa semua ini pada orang2 yang tertentu, we can all get together to push for a change.

I am a man of my word, once I kenal you siapa, I akan siarkan my response to you punya soalan2

Admin said...

Dear All,

OMG! That question from aslam MUST have woken up the "Sleeping Tigeress" in my house.

I would like to make an open appology to all of you who reads this Blog for that "one particular tabbo word" used by my daughter in her response to aslam's question.

However, I feel proud on the contents and the language style that she use in her response.

Being young, she has her suspect onwho aslam really is. Well kids being kids.

I am not sure if my younger daughter will now start spilling her all pulak.

Anyway after the responsemadeby my daughter, I will now have to reword my response to aslam.

Again, to all the readers of this Blog, especially to all the parents, my humble appologies.


I will now only allow people who becomes followers of this Blog to make comments. Too bad if this platform will have to shut down, since I made this platform for all the parents who complain dari belakng.

Admin said...

Okay like I say I am a man of my words. I was waiting for aslam to revel himslef to me in confidence via an email, but I tak tahu anak saya telah memberi pendapat dia sendiri. Below is my side of the story since aslam nak dengar stori, kan?

Response utk soalan 1:
Star2 yang saya maksudkan ada lah Bowler2 yang telah menyerlahkan diri mereka dalam kejohanan Junior Circuit dan sebagainya. Saya menyentuh dan mengunakan perkataan STAR itu ada lah untuk menegaskan bahawa STBA04 sepatutnya BUILD THE STAR dan bukan menyerap hanya yang sudah establish.

Anak2 kita yang masih kecil lagi dan yang menunjukan potensi mereka harus di bimbing olih STBA04 supaya mereka ini akan menjadi STAR pulak, yang akan menganti STAR yang ada sekarang di masa depan.

The satisfaction of building a STAR is much more to be appreciated taking bowlers who had to go through the period of establishing themselves on their own, with the support and encouragements by their parents on individual basis. Dengan cara begini, there will be a bigger pool of bowlers to rely on in the very near future. Itu maksud saya tentang STAR.


Now this will be my response to the second questions, why my daughters are not in the 2010 SUKMA Program


Pekara ini mula berlaku pada pemilihan pasukan Selangor untuk Inter-State 2009. Kedua2 anak saya telah di pilih untuk menjalani latihan pusat. Latihan pusat ini pun di buat dgn cara bidan terjun. Latihan pada minggu ini, dan Inter-State minggu depan.

Official training pada hari Isnin, Selasa dan Khamis. Oleh sedemikian anak kedua saya terpaksa mengambil cuti dari kuliah selama 1 minggu. Pada hari pertama latihan, penolong jurulatih Selangor, En. Mat Salleh, telah menegaskan bahawa barang siapa yg tidak hadir latihan sepenuhnya tidak akan di pilih utk mewakili pasukan Selangor, walau pun dia seorang “STAR”. Saya memang setuju dan menghargai prinsip En. Mat Salleh. Ini lah cara menjadi Jurulatih yang tegas dan berdisplin, supaya pemain bowling remaja kita pun turut berdisiplin.

Bagi catagori Youth Perempuan, 5 peserta telah di undang utk menjalani latihan pusat. Pada hari pertama latihan hanya empat yang hadir, dan kedua2 anak saya anatara yang hadir.

Pada hari Khamis (hari terakhir latihan pusat) peserta kelima untuk pasukan Girls Youth menghadirkan diri. En. Mat Salleh, telah menjalankan latihan seperti biasa. Satu mesyuarat telah di adakan selepas tamat sessi latihan terakhir. Di dalam mesyuarat itu, anak kedua saya telah di keluarkan dari pasukan dan peserta kelima itu telah di serap masuk, tanpa apa2 penjelasan atau reason. Sebelum tamat masyuarat, En.Sabarudin telah memberikan satu set baju (4 helai) “team Selangor” kepada semua peserta yang terpilih. Anak kedua saya juga diberi satu set, dikatakan kerana komitmennya terhadap sesi latihan.

Olih kerana rasa tidak puas hati dengan penyingkiran adik nya dari pasukan, setelah jurulatih membelakangkan prinsip diri dia sendiri, anak saya Harini, dengan rasa yang sedih tapi marah,telah mengabil keputusan untuk menarik diri dari Pasukan Selangor without any influence dari saya atau isteri saya.

Penarikan diri telah di umum kan pada En. Lokman Jasril pada hari Sabtu, dua hari selepas latihan berakhir. Pada hari itu juga, anak kedua saya menerima text message dari Lokman Jasril, meminta balik kesemua baju “team Selangor” yang telah di berikan kepada kedua2 anak saya. Lokman menyatakan bahawa En. Sabaruddin yang minta balik.

Pada saya baju is no big deal dan saya sendiri pergi ke Summit untuk menyerahkan kembali kedua2 set baju2 tersebut.

Siapa lah agak “Star” itu? Saya rasa semua orang bolih tahu siapa “Star” itu. Kalau sesaorang itu bolih melanggar syarat2 Jurulatih tapi masih di pilih mesti lah bertahap “Star” kan? 
Mulai hari itu, anak saya Harini gave up the idea of ever representing the Selangor State Bowling Team

Saya sendiri tidak tahu bahawa kedua2 anak perempuan saya telah di pilih untuk menjalani latihan pusat bagi pemilihan Pasukan SUKMA 2010 Selangor.

Saya dan isteri hanya tahu apabila anak saya, Harini memberitahu bahawa Kenny Ang menalipon dia dan bertanya pasal apa dia dan adik nya tidak datang untuk latihan SUKMA 2010 di Ole-Ole.

Harini telah memberi tahu pada Kenny bahawa tiada siapa yang telah memberi tahu pada mereka berdua-beradik bahawa mereka telah di pilih untuk menjalani latihan dengan team SUKMA. Apa lagi yang telah anak saya bincangkan dengan Kenny jangan kita bincang di sini. Itu antara dia dengan Kenny. Apa yang saya tahu. Dia telah memberi tahu Kenny sebab2 yang telah membuat keputusan bagi dia dan adik nya tidak mahu menjalani latihan team SUKMA 2010. Kenny tahu apa yang sebenar nya berlaku.

Saya juga ingin menjelaskan di sini, bahawa untuk pengetahuan semua, bukan saya atau isteri saya yang mengeluarkan kedua2 anak kami dari program SUKMA 2010. Kedua2 anak saya telah membuat keputusan masing2 untuk tidak menyertai program SUKMA 2010. Saya menghormati keputusan yang telah di ambil oleh anak2 saya, dan saya merasa bangga bahawa anak2 saya berpegang pada prinsip dan jati diri.

Saya menjelaskan sedemikian bahawa saya perpendapat saya terpaksa menyatakan keadaan yang sebenarnya, setelah di soal, oleh kerana saya tahu dan telah mendengar macam2 sebab dan alasan yang telah di nyatakan oleh orang2 tertentu terhadap penarikan diri kedua2 anak saya dari program Interstate dan juga SUKMA 2010.


Macam perpatah Inggeris……….”there is always two sides to a story”

Harini macam gave up bowling, and only plays once in a while for a league that she had been committed to and maybe once in a while main dalam one-day event kinda tournament. Fairuz pula hanya bermain untuk circuit tanpa latihan olih kerana dia ingin mencuba kalau bolih layak ke GP, since this is her final eligible year for the circuit. Itu pun kalau boleh lah.

Sekarang hanya anak lelaki saya, yang masih lagi mentah dalam sukan Bowling, di latih cara bersendirian. Latihan dengan sedikit sebanyak yang saya tahu dari penyelidikan dalam internet dan dengan tunjuk ajar olih orang2 yang “bukan pakar” dan tidak bertauliah dalam bidang kejurulatihan bowling. Tapi alhamdullillah dengan sebanyak mana dia di tunjuk ajar ada nampak progress dia sedikit demi sedikit. Di mana letak tahap dia nanti hanya Allah yang tahu.

Dia pun terpilih untuk latihan AA, tapi tak tahu lah….kalau di bagitahu tentang bila latihan akan bermula atau pun tidak then see lah what happens. Tapi dengan cara STBA04 yang ada sekarang, mungkin sukar untuk dia mengikuti development program yang di sediakan olih STBA04.

I hope that this will put to rest on why anak2 saya menarik diri dari pasukan Sleangor untuk Kejohanan Interstate 2009 dan juga Program utk SUKMA 2010.

Tinie said...

Assalamualaikum wmwb,

To all,

I am glad that my daughter wrote in this blog... Ya Allah for all these while she has been quiet in fact didn't tell us why she quit bowling and all her friends she once treasure most. Kesian but I think as time past by, my girl grow up and knows that family come first and in life, friends come a go and a good friendships will remain and never can end..

I wish I can elaborate more what my girl had in mind but really she is one person who will keep all, until the right time a moment.

To be very frank, I know she is very angry as she has been there in the team for Selangor Youth day in and out and this is what she get.

She says there is no way for me to dig more about what had happened but she says, there is nothing to worry that she will never put the family down and she believe that the truth will always prevail.

I know that a lot of their friends and team mate blame it to my youngest daughter coz her sister pulled out due she was not chosen to be in the team in Interstate 2009. Please get your source right coz' I think my youngest daughter have had a lot of pain in her heart about bowling coach and friends. Pity her coz' she only needs the chance to show how good she is im bowling but it was turned down due to others' to which I really think it's not fair for her. What will any of you do if your children is just like her? Never given the chance to proof her skills.

To all, please open MTBC past years record. My daughters making lot of history helping Selangor. In their heart they are still Selangorian and sad to say, they sort of been bitten by the one they trusted most.

I wish I can tell more but as far as this is concern I wish I can hear more about what others think of my children.

There are not 1 or 2 who are bowling. There are 3 of them and please think, macam mana lah Ayah dia tak pening....

And guess what the forth one is also coming. Now pun dah start throwing and scolding the others of NOT throwing right. Hmmm.... Entahlah.

But please put everything in mind that, this blog is only meant to find out the truth about what happened not to only bring out the truth of what happened to my children. If there are other ill treatment please write in and I think if we share a lot more truth about what happened in STBA'04.

I guess, what really happened to my girls will be reveal later. We have got to find the source right.

Untuk semua tolong maafkan anak saya kerana mengunakan bahasa yang agak kasar dalam blog ini.

Munchkines said...

To whoever it may concern,

Firstly, I would like to say for those of you who thinks that you know everything that is happening in STBA04,please open up your mind now to listen to what do I have to say. I am not being one sided or anything, just that you may shut your mouth from saying bad things about others.

I have been in Selangor for more than 10 years and have been coaching for about 4 years.

Regarding on the last KL circuit, I was there on Saturday but for a short while. I do not have my own club or association but I was there merely to help out those people who needs help but eventually, nobody even come and ask for help. So I just go to whoever I want to see. I may not be a Selangor coach but I am still a coach to everyone. Doesn't matter whoever you are but I will definitely help out. For instance, I am not Aqeem's coach but I did help him out during Junior All Stars and he became champion on that day. I used to help Negeri Sembilan team for Interstate and they have won several medals. I even helped out some other bowlers from other states like Farah Izzazaya from Pahang in circuits before (with the consent of her coach). You see, I am a coach in general and I am always there to help anyone.

Don't think that the coaches who are there during KL Circuit only stays with their favorites, but they are there to oversee the overall. All you need is just ask for assistance because they are there not to coach, but to have a look see just like me. We are not appointed YET to be the coach. Do you know that we have not even received the offer letter from MSN? You don't know right... So we are there just to do charity. Are the parents paying for our services? If you all say that you can afford to pay personal coach,how come you are stingy to pay for our services? We are not paid thousands to do this job okay...

Regarding to STBA04, do you know that Dato' Aini all this while has been using his own money to run the show? It is not easy for him to look for sponsorships as the economy is having a downturn at the moment. He is trying his best to do the job. For those of you that is not satisfied with the things that is going on in the association, please do not just give out unrelevant comments, instead please come out with a solution for all this. Don't point fingers only...

As for the different training venues, I have no comment for that. I do agree with only 1 central training venue. That is for the good for the program.

Lastly, please do not see every of the coaches the same way. For instance, me. I will try to help everyone as and when I can. I am only a phone call away. Whoever need help in training can call me for help, as long as I am free to do so-lah. But please bear in mind, that I am not FOC. Not to say I am money-minded but someone has to bear my traveling cost and other cost. I do not earn thousands of ringgit and please do not expect me to do charity work because I have been treated unjusticely ever since that.

Finally, I will stop right here. You can catch me at mustafa.yassin@yahoo.com or call me at 012-9789878.

Admin said...

Well said Mus! My family knows the kind of person that you are.

We will always remember you as one of children's better teacher, amongst the very few handful.

As for our fourth child, we wait and see first! :-)

Admin said...

To Anonymous who tried to post a comment the Comments madeby Admin on this topic.

Sorry, as stated, your comment will not get published for all to read unless we have your identity, not just a writer who hides behind anonymity.

You want to be heard? Have the guts to tell us all who you are, your comments will be published. You can be sure of that!

Tinie said...

Dear parents who really concern & admin too...

If Mus is willing to help our children in coaching them during the circuit, I wish if we could combine the cash and at least help in monetary concern. Kesian jugak kat dia. He is willing to help but biasalah.. when he is trying to be good and being good in it dia pun kena jugaklah tempiasnya.

That also if he wishes to help our children in any other circuit after all there is only 3 circuits left. My children NOT following the Kuantan Circuit due to my son is having practice with Petaling Perdana for the MSSS week after.

Itupun kalau ada yang setuju...

botak said...

Sorry dah lama tak je masuk. Muz sorry la kau terasa pasal kl leg tu. I pun tak perasan kau kat sana. I was reffering orang lain. I think u know siapa dia. Lama tak dengar cerita kau? I dengar AAA dah start training kat 1U. But what a surprise tak ramai yang turn up.After all this fiasco still they decide to buat kat sana. I think half yang turn up now.What a waste. Another thing do stba 04 going to select new AAA student to replace the old one? Or is up to the AAA coach to select thier choice. What i see that what happen now. So what the point of evaluation by mtbc youth coach. Some of them are not suppose to get this but now they are training with AAA. Again its a waste of time and msn money. I hope Stba 04 will look into this.